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Re: can't cope.

Dear Tiffany, I know this is coming to you really late and I hope that you are coping better, I too lost my fiance in a motorcycle accident, It was the worst day of my life, Its been a long time and I still do think about him almost everyday, I think the worst part of it is that it was so sudden, I didnt see it coming, it wasnt like we were fighting and split up and he took off, even though for years I pretended thats what happened...I couldnt cope either, sometimes I still look around for him, It does get better and life does go on, we never forget,Here is a link to a memorial I did years ago,
http://www.arrivealive.com/LaynesStory.htm Ive been married twice I have 2 children, and to this day I still wonder what would have been... I hope this isnt depressing for you, I just wanted you to know that you are not alone.
Take care
Tami

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My boyfriend/ best friend past away on August 30th 2005, in a motorcycle accident. I miss him so much, and it hurts so bad. I dont feel like dealing with the rest of the world. All i want is to see him, and i want it now. If somone else has losts a spouse and has any advise for me please write back or email me. I am hurting it is effecting every second of my life.

Name of loved one and dates: Layne Ward 1958-1980

Re: can't cope.

I KNOW YOUR LOSS IS BREAKING YOUR HEART. REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES............THERE MUST BE MANY......GOD LOANS US SOME WONDERFUL PEOPLE, SOMETIME'S FOR A SHORT WHILE, BUT THRU THE GRACE OF GOD YOU WILL SEE YOUR LOVED ONE AGAIN.....WHEN GOD CALLS YOU HOME...YOU WILL SEE ALL YOUR LOVED ONES.....BUT NOW---HERE---- YOU HAVE A JOB TO DO, REACH OTHERS WITH YOU PASSION......YOUR BOYFRIEND WOULD WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY AND TO GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE....IT'S YOUR TURN..IT'S HARD....BUT YOU MUST GO ON....AND THEN BE READY SOMEDAY WHEN GODS SAYS.........TO YOU COME HOME..

Name of loved one and dates: oct 24 2005 "MY DAD"