I'm from out of town and was wondering what the general attitude is towards pre-op trans men at this venue, specifically for events listed as men-only. Are there usually any FTM guys at these or would I stick out like a sore thumb? I haven't had any surgeries, but I've been on hormones for a while and look/sound fairly androgynous. Partner and I are very involved in local bdsm culture back home, but a city of 75k with a small, hushed kink scene is very different from a big-city cruise club, and I'm a little nervous. Thanks :)